My Services
My journey into the field of psychology took a long winding path through many twists and turns from growing up as a nerdy gifted child with intense expectations, to nearly failing out of college due to the pressure, becoming a software developer, exploring spirituality, recovering from cancer, spending three years as a professional poker player, doing my own therapeutic work, and rediscovering a love of psychology through reading Jung and volunteering for an LGBTQ hotline. I then studied both holistic counseling in my master’s program, and more scientific clinical psychology in my PhD. My areas of focus and style of working reflect my diverse experiences.
Areas of Focus
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Anxiety can debilitating! I work with anxiety using a mix of cognitive-behavioral tools, mindfulness practices, parts work, and empathetic listening to help you understand the roots of your anxiety better. Exposure and facing your fears is an important component of working with anxiety, but you don’t have to do it alone! Anxiety work consists of both learning tools to better work with anxiety, and depth work to get at the roots of specific anxiety triggers.
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Depression is sometimes referred to as the “fever” of mental illness as it can have many different causes. How I work with depression depends on the underlying causes. In some cases, reconnection to valued activities and joy is the active ingredient of treatment. In other cases, depression relates to living out of alignment with values, difficulties with meaning-making, negative thinking patterns, or difficulty coping with life circumstances. In some cases medication can be indicated, in which case I might coordinate with a medical provider. As depression is multi-causal each treatment will be tailored to your particular circumstances.
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Insomnia and chronic sleep deprivation can be very challenging. As someone who struggled with sleep throughout my life, sleep has become a strong area of clinical focus for me. Sleep is a purely unconscious process, therefore we can not make ourselves go to sleep, we can only create conditions favorable for sleep, and get out of our own way. Fortunately, sleep problems are often amenable to short-term treatment. My work with sleep is centered around cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) and working to understand your particular emotional and practical barriers to sleep.
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Trauma is an emotional reaction to a distressing event that overwhelms coping. Symptoms include flashbacks, nightmares, anxiety, avoidance, and intrusive thoughts. When we cope successfully, our brain integrates distressing events into our story, they are “digested”. When events exceed our coping mechanisms, they can remain undigested. Anything that reminds us of the experience can “retrigger” the original event. I use a combination of “top-down approaches” (therapies such as cognitive processing therapy which work with your narrative of the events) and “bottom-up approaches” (experiential therapies such as EMDR) approaches to help you digest these experiences.
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Individuals with ADHD may experience difficulties in sustaining attention, organizing tasks, following instructions, and controlling impulses. In my view, ADHD can be just a different way that your brain works. In some circumstances that can actually be a strength. People with ADHD often have the ability to hyperfocus which can be a strength in some circumstances, they also often excel in a crisis. One theory states that people with ADHD have “hunter-gatherer” brains in a “farmer” world. This can cause struggle in a world so filled with distraction that it even creates difficulties for those with neurotypical brains. My work with people with ADHD involves a mix of practical tools and tips to help navigate a world that is sometimes not built for your strengths as well as work on self-acceptance and helping you to live aligned with your particular values and goals.
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Sometimes mental health symptoms are related to being disconnected from your values, engaging in work that is not in alignment with your values, or relationships that do not serve you. This can sometimes lead to feelings of depression, burnout, low motivation or confusion. I work with these issues with a combination of ACT values work, and depth work to help you to connect to your deeper motivations.
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Grief and loss is something we all experience in our time as human beings on this planet. It is the one thing that unites us all. Grief can be painful, and sometimes can become stuck, especially if there is no one there to witness it, we are denied its expression, or it is avoided. The four tasks of mourning according to J. William Worden are to accept the reality of the loss, process the pain of the loss, to adjust to the world without the deceased, and to find a way to remember the deceased while engaging in life. Sometimes we just need to be witnessed and to feel less alone, other times we might need help in letting go or creating rituals to honor the deceased. Grief can also occur in response to other losses such as relationships, or career setbacks, or the loss of possibilities. I work with grief through a mix of deep listening and experiential exercises.
Populations of Interest
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As someone who grew up with the gifted label and excelled in high school, only to struggle with the freedom of college later, I am familiar with both the strengths and challenges of being labeled as “high-potential.” I also have a strong interested in working with twice-exceptional folk. (people with both a gifted label and mental health challenges). Gifted people often think, feel, and experience the world in ways that are more intense, complex, and nuanced than those around them. While their creativity, insight, and sensitivity can be tremendous strengths, they may also bring challenges—such as perfectionism, overthinking, heightened emotional intensity, or a sense of being different from peers. As a psychologist, I help gifted clients navigate these experiences, harness their unique abilities, and find balance between achievement and well-being. Together, we explore strategies to manage stress, deepen self-understanding, and create a life that feels both meaningful and sustainable.
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I work with neurodivergent clients using a tailored approach that recognizes and respects their unique ways of processing information, experiencing emotions, and interacting with the world. Neurodivergent people often experience the world in ways that are vivid, creative, and uniquely their own. These strengths can shine in problem-solving, focus on passions, or original thinking, yet they may also come with challenges such as executive functioning struggles, sensory sensitivities, or feeling out of step with others. As a psychologist, I support neurodivergent clients in understanding their minds, developing strategies that fit how they naturally operate, and building lives that feel both authentic and sustainable.
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Prior to becoming a psychologist, I spent 15 years in the software industry as a software developer and manager. I am very familiar with the pressures and challenges of the tech industry. As a fellow nerd, I will get your gaming and scifi references! If you want some who can work programming metaphors into your therapy, I am the one for you!
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When I was looking for a new career after deciding to leave the tech industry, I volunteered for a LGBTQ hotline, this rewarding experience was part of what led me to enter the mental health field. Later, I did a one year internship at an LGBTQ counseling center. My work with the community involves meeting you where you are. I welcome all types of relationships in my practice queer or straight, monogamous or polyamorous.
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The majority of my clinical training during graduate school took place at college counseling centers, where I gained valuable experience supporting students. I especially enjoy working with young adults as they navigate important issues such as finding personal meaning, developing and maintaining relationships, establishing themselves, and addressing various mental health challenges.
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Another area of focus of mine is the midlife transition. Jung said that midlife was a time when we are called to live the “unlived life”. It can be a time of reflection, changing direction, and addressing potentials neglected in youth. This can be a challenging time as existing life structures conflict with new possibilities. Sometimes, symptoms such as anxiety and depression can arise if there are difficulties navigating this transition. This is a place where therapy can help.
Ways of Working
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Humanistic therapy is a form of psychotherapy that emphasizes the individual's inherent capacity for self-awareness, personal growth, and self-actualization. Rooted in the belief that people are fundamentally good and possess the potential to overcome difficulties, this approach focuses on fostering a supportive and empathetic environment in order to explore feelings and experiences without judgment.
Psychotherapy research shows that a large portion of the effectiveness of psychotherapy is due to “common factors”, such as empathy and compassion, nonjudgemental listening, and a collabortive and trusting relationship. These factors form the root of my therapeutic stance, regardless of what might be layered on top of it.
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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a psychotherapeutic approach that focuses on identifying and modifying negative thought patterns and behaviors. It is based on the concept that maladaptive thinking leads to emotional distress and problematic behaviors. Through CBT, clients learn to challenge distorted cognitions, develop healthier thinking habits, and practice skills that promote effective coping and problem-solving.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is a form of psychotherapy that emphasizes psychological flexibility through acceptance strategies and commitment to personal values. Unlike CBT, which targets the content of thoughts, ACT focuses on changing the individual’s relationship with their thoughts and feelings. It encourages mindfulness, acceptance of unpleasant experiences, and active engagement in behaviors aligned with core values, aiming to improve overall well-being despite difficult internal experiences.
I think of CBT and ACT together as “healthy habits of mind”. These perspectives inform my stance to therapy and I might use them informally or work with them formally through structured exercises.
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Psychodynamic and depth work can help us unearth how past learning contribute to present problems. Oftentimes we have emotional learnings from childhood that made sense at the time, but are no longer useful in our current environment. An example would be learning to not speak up as a child because parents encouraged one not to speak up at home. This might cause problems later in life in situations where speaking up would be safe but you still feel inhibited. Often these childhood learnings are unconscious and you may be unaware of the pattern. Merely uncovering the childhood learning is often insufficient as we need a corrective experience to transform the learning. My work in this area draws from both the classic psychodynamic tradition as well as more innovative understandings of memory reconsolidation and the possibility of true transformation.
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Parts work is a therapeutic approach that recognizes the mind as composed of distinct subpersonalities or "parts," This method helps individuals identify, understand, and harmonize these internal parts to resolve internal conflicts and promote psychological healing. By engaging with these parts through dialogue and exploration, clients can uncover underlying issues, foster self-awareness, and achieve greater emotional balance and integration. My work with parts is informed by approaches such as Internal Family Systems (IFS) and ego state therapy.
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Irvin Yalom, one of the seminal figures in existential therapy, described existential therapy as dealing with the “four existential givens”. Death (we will all die), Freedom (we have choices as to how to live our life that we are responsible for), Isolation (no one can ever fully know our experience) and Meaninglessness (we must find our own meaning in life). These are questions that we all face and we sometimes need help with. Sometimes we need a guide to connect to the antidotes of approaching life, taking responsibility, finding connection and finding meaning . I am interested in working with these issues both from a philosophical place, and incorporating mythology and spirituality if that is your bent.
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Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a psychotherapy approach designed to alleviate distress associated with traumatic memories. It involves guided eye movements or other bilateral stimulation while the patient recalls distressing events, facilitating the processing and integration of these memories into adaptive information networks. The therapy aims to reduce the emotional charge of traumatic memories, allowing individuals to develop healthier perspectives and responses. EMDR has a strong evidence based to show that it is as effective as other trauma treatments such as prolonged exposure and cognitive processing therapy.
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Our unconscious minds learn from experience rather than from talking. Therefore it can be valuable to incorporate experiential methods into therapuetic work. Examples of experiential methods include guided visualization, art therapy, drama therapy, and the two chair method. These methods can help bring therapy to life and improve experiential learning. I incorporate these modalities into my work for interested clients.
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